Working Too Hard For Love

You're good at giving other people what they want. You're good at sensing what others need. At work, and outside of work. 

It's exhausting you.

Your true needs are going unfulfilled.

You're working too hard for love. You're feeling lonely, overwhelmed, disconnected, numbed out, or in despair.

As women, it's our default-programming to just serve the needs of others to try to get the love we want....that's how most of us women have been taught: to be givers! And to be sexual objects of others' desire, period.   Add to that the fact that many women have been abused, and this underlying trauma leads to self-destructive behavior, or repeating traumatic patterns in relationships.

Maybe you're playing the role of Perfect Wife or Perfect Partner or Perfect Employee: You're trading your emotional support of Others in order to receive love and admiration.

Or You're trading sex or flirtations for love or attention? For a quick hit of self-esteem?  It's a roller-coaster cycle: You feel your heart drop into your stomach when your self-esteem takes a nose dive afterwards, when eventually the loneliness, the disconnection sets in.

You don't have to sacrifice Your Needs, OR your Dignity for love or admiration. 

I can help you to get your self-love flowing, and your life on track.  To put your life in balance.  Feel whole and connected to your authentic self.  Attract mutual respect.  Create more authentic, mutually supportive and loving relationships. And create healthy habits to replace the unhealthy ones.

 

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With experiential, somatic, embodiment therapies that unite mind, body, and soul, I help women to come to feel that deeper connection to themselves. 

Aside from romantic love, there are so many forms of love to be enjoyed: community, connection to the earth and universal life force, and to your inner resources....

I will help you create those connections. I have tools to share with you and to help you to: 

  • Find your own voice + identify your authentic needs
  • Reverse underlying trauma
  • Set healthy boundaries
  • Follow your joy (discover what that is!)
  • Develop healthy intuition
  •  Attract romantic and sexual interactions and partnerships that are healthy and in alignment with your authentic needs.

Want to feel more authentic Self-love, Dignity, AND  have healthier relationships?

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